But it’s not giving SSL connection errors when connected to host providers nameservers.
How did you determine TLS is disabled on my host? (So I can tell my host provider)
Don’t confuse Cloudflare DNS with the Cloudflare proxy. Only 
names will connect through the Cloudflare proxy. You keep referencing your hosting company DNS. Unless you have different IPs configured in their DNS, it has nothing to do with anything. If your DNS is set at your registrar to use Cloudflare nameservers and you have paused Cloudflare, all connections go directly to your origin server. Individual records set to 
DNS Only also go directly to your origin server.
Not on your host, in your Cloudflare settings. You turned off TLS 1.2 in your Cloudflare dashboard. I made that determination by running the SSL Labs SSL Server Test on your domain while it was "orange: Proxied.
The test result stated that TLS 1.2 was not enabled. The only way for that to happen is if you turned it off in your Cloudflare settings. You should set your Minimum TLS Version to TLS 1.2 instead of TLS 1.3.
Yes, but I have enabled Cloudflare. It’s not paused anymore. Then I got these SSL connection errors. When I use the hosts providers name servers I get NO errors.
That is because:
Again, you are confusing nameservers and proxies. They are not the same thing.
I am going to have to leave you to your own devices or to whichever other Community members have additional time for you right now. I need a break from these circular issues and I have other things that require my attention.
OK, thanks so far.
It’ working fine now. At least according to whynopadlock…