Postfix, which is one popular mail server daemon, is for example by default re-trying the first time after 17 minutes, if the receiving mail server was previously giving a temporary error code, or otherwise an intermittent failure to make the delivery (e.g. some sort of connection timeout, as mentioned above).
The timeout could be simply be due to temporary / intermittent connection failures between SendGrid’s network and the network of the receiving mail server.
There is however also another chance, that It could be due to some sort of anti spam technique used on the receiving mail server.
Nolisting and Greylisting are two popular techniques that can be used on the receiving server, in an attempt to reduce “fire-and-forget” kind of spam, that wouldn’t be re-trying deliveries later, if they see a temporary failure…
Nolisting would normally work in a firewall by rejecting connections with TCP RESET (or, if not explicitly set as returning TCP RESET, it would likely be returning a timeout as mentioned above).
Greylisting works by sending a temporary rejection code, the very first time it sees a specific combination (typically made of sender email, IP address of mail server and receiver email) for the delivery attempt.
Most often though, when the receiver is using Greylisting, some sort of combination will be remembered for a while though, to reduce the (potential recurring) impact of delayed messages.
My personal advice though, I would always suggest to refrain from using SendGrid, they have a decade long history of housing systemic spam / phishing / malware attacks, without doing anything at all to mitigate the situation.
You don’t have to take my word for that, if you don’t wish to. You can also check the Swiss Government Computer Emergency Response Team’s website:
https://www.govcert.admin.ch/blog/28/the-rise-of-dridex-and-the-role-of-esps
TL;DR: It wouldn’t surprise me, if SendGrid simply is seeing the cold shoulder from other organisations, due to their reluctance to attempt to mitigate the situations they have had.