Hello I’m new to using Cloudflare. I think ssl is working with my domain because i used a ssl checker and it seems good. I have setup my .htaccess file and changed pretty much all links to use https and proxy links and messages but when i go to my website now it say refused to connect
That error is coming directly from your origin server. At the moment your site is not using Cloudflare. The NS records don’t point to Cloudflare and your www and root resolve to the origin IP.
It appears also that your site is not listening on port 443.
nvm seems it was cache problem but speaking of that problem my current users they either get a connection refused or a white messy page if they dont clear their cache. its kinda hard to get them all to clear their cache