Only by unproxying your DNS records (switching to ), though this will essentially disable Cloudflare’s core service for you and you will only use the DNS service.
so i want to be sure i understand this right…I have to pay money to use my own SSL certificate and that there is no way i can bypass the SSL have it sent to my hosting without disabling cloud services?
Well, you can purchase a business plan, which will allow you to import your own certificate to Cloudflare. Other than that you only have the option to direct requests to your server or to proxy and use Cloudflare’s certificate on the edge servers and your own on your own server.