something i forgot to mention is that damianderooij.rocks is also registered at openprovider and configured in the exact same way and works just fine with cloudflare (if u visit it though it has no page that’s cuz i have issues with wordpress and turned it off, but trust me, it works)
omg thank you thank you thank you! I must have hit the setup button for dnssec on cloudflare and never followed through on that! such a bad mistake, I’ll set it up now because better to have it than to not have it